
The word enthusiasm means to be excited or interested. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm”. How about relationships?
It is easy to be enthusiastic about sports, campaigns or new ideas. You have a group of people coming together for a common cause and they build excitement about their interest. The key is people coming together with enthusiasm. Usually enthusiasm is short lived. It builds up to a moment. If the outcome of the moment is pleasant it can perpetuate more enthusiasm. If the outcome of the moment is unpleasant it can be a huge let down. Relationships benefit from enthusiasm because you are a team. A group of two who share an interest and build excitement and every aspect of the relationship, an event to be enthusiastic about. Not to mean over the top cheer leading but, to focus on something together, with interest. It is the joint interest that keeps a relationship going. Enthusiasm can make a relationship thrive, even when you fake it.
It is hard to be excited all the time about the ideas and interest of someone else. This is the hard part. This is where you must work at a relationship. Digging deeper into the word enthusiasm which comes from the Greek word ntheos, n – “in” and theos – “god”. We must be god-like to be enthusiastic. Herein lies the benefits.
If we show an interest with the plans, ideas and events in the lives of the people we have relationships with we make that relationship better. We bond like fans at a ballgame. This effort means that we have to put our interest aside sometimes and be god like, operating for the greater good of someone else. Isn’t this what we want in a relationship? Someone on our team?
There may be a time when your mate is excited about the way his new rims look on his truck. You may not understand or feel the same as he does, but you get excited and show enthusiasm for his happiness. You may not really like the hint of red in your mate’s hair, but she is so excited about it that you let it go and smile with her. Your friend may have a new person in their life and even though you don’t feel the excitement they do, you cheer them on. Your parent may be excited about a newly acquired skill that you see as simple. Be enthusiastic about their accomplishment. It is all making another person feel good by sharing in their excitement.
Be enthusiastic about the plans, ideas and events in the lives of the people you love. Everyone could use a fan who acts as their on personal cheerleader.



